Theresa Borawski sat down heavily on a neighbor's porch, somewhere in between her front door and her good friend's driveway. The distance between the two was less than half a mile. It might as well have been 20.
She had already taken a
break on a tree stump near the road. This was the last stop, she told
herself as she stood up from the porch slowly. She was going to make it.
Reaching her friend's house was like reaching the finish line of a much longer race.
"I was just like I had run in a marathon," Borawski remembers. "It was the biggest moment in my life."
"He had to bring me home because I couldn't walk back," she laughs, "but ..."
But the victory was sweet
for a woman who just six months before had primarily relied on a
wheelchair to get around, a woman who had lived in her house for two
years without walking to the mailbox.
At her heaviest in March 2011, Borawski weighed 428 pounds.
"I could no longer
participate in life's activities and was forced to become a spectator
while people around me lived their life," she wrote on iReport.com.
"Today, I am 276 pounds lighter, 14 jean sizes smaller, and no longer
need a wheelchair, walker or cane to get around. I am a walking, talking
miracle and have been given a second chance at life."
Borawski's father died
when she was 8. Friends and family showed their sympathy with food. The
lunch lady at school put extra fries on her tray; the neighbors gave her
more candy at Halloween. Her grandparents were caterers, and their
extended family got together often for exorbitant meals.
"I learned at a very young age that food makes the happy times better and the sad times more bearable," she says.
She was heavy throughout
high school and college but says her weight never really affected her
life until 2003, when a series of setbacks sent her into a downward
spiral.
Borawski lost her church
job of 15 years and moved more than 200 miles to start anew. She lost
her grandfather and best friend back-to-back a few months later. Then
her new job was cut from the church's budget.
"All of a sudden I'm 42 years old, living alone, unemployed, no income whatsoever," she says.
So she comforted herself with food and decided to go back to college.
Professor Chuck Bowden
wasn't surprised by Borawski's amazing transformation. She caught his
attention right away as a student willing to work hard.
"I already knew she was dedicated," Bowden says. "I think starting over
as a college freshman had to be a challenge -- almost just as
impressive."
Over the next four years, Borawski gained weight steadily. Her doctor diagnosed her with rheumatoid arthritis,
an extremely painful chronic disease that inflamed her joints. The
extra pounds she was carrying only made the condition worse.
She used a walker or
cane to get around. When she graduated from Mid Michigan Community
College, she could barely walk across the stage to get her diploma.
By January 2011, "my
life was in complete chaos," Borawski says. She was working at the
college and traveled around campus in an electric wheelchair.
"I always heard her
whirring down the hall," Bowden remembers. He and Borawski had become
friends and chatted often about the future. "With the (arthritis) and
the extra weight, I got very concerned that she might ... not be able to
take care of herself."
His fears weren't far off.
Borawski had difficulty
standing long enough in the shower to wash and condition her hair. She
could only shop at stores that had mobile carts; it took her a week to
carry in her groceries from the car because she could only carry one or
two bags at a time. She was seriously considering moving into an
assisted living facility.
"I could barely
function," Borawski says. She got up, rode around in her wheelchair,
popped painkillers, ate and went to bed every night at 7 p.m. "Every bit
of energy I had went to just living."
Her wake-up call came on
March 1, 2011. Her sister phoned to tell her she was getting bariatric
surgery. Borawski pleaded with her not to -- she had heard horror
stories about the procedure's aftereffects. When the sister hung up,
Borawski went to the refrigerator and took out a bottle of peach soda.
"Something just clicked
in my head," she says. A quick calculation made Borawski realize she had
been drinking nearly 7,000 calories a week in soda -- the equivalent of
2 pounds.
She opened up the bottle and dumped it down the drain. Then she did the same with the rest of her stash.
At that moment, Borawski gave up sugar cold turkey.
Ten days later, she went
to the doctor and had lost 7 pounds. She bought a calorie-counting book
on the way home and started reading food labels. Soon after, she
restricted her calorie intake to 1,000 calories a day (experts warn
against eating less than 1,200 calories a day because it sends your body
into starvation mode). She says she wasn't hungry at that limit because
of her lack of mobility.
"Because I was so heavy, I had a lot of success really quickly. I lost 45 pounds between March and Memorial Day."
In October 2011,
Borawski walked to her mailbox without a cane for the first time. Her
next trip was to the neighbor's mailbox. The first time she walked down
the steps at work, her student assistant cheered.
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